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Letters editor@floridaagenda.com

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Dear Editor,

Regarding a recent column by A.J. Cross, please “stop the insanity!” I can’t tell whether Cross needs a hug, a strong cocktail, or an intervention. About a month ago (Florida Agenda, Feb. 9, 2012: “Cross-Eyed: I Don’t Want to Be Gay”), I read his described attempts to apparently seduce a very confused man who hasn’t yet made up his mind whether he is gay or straight.

While most gay people can relate to the pain and confusion associated with coming out, for some people this is a life-long struggle, and these individuals deserve our sympathy as they decide how they should best live their lives.

The writer, while perhaps not meaning to, comes across as a predator exploiting a confused—and clearly emotionally-unavailable, to anyone—person more in
need of counseling than friendly advice from someone who seems to be looking to get into his pants.

Clearly this person, as described by Cross, is screwed-up: he is 28, dating a 49 year old woman as well as Cross who I gather from his other writing is somewhere in his late 30s or early 40s.

While the subject of his ‘affections’ is certainly in the throes of getting his head on ‘straight’—so to speak—the same can’t be said about the nameless woman, who appears to be a case of ‘Fag Hags Gone Wild’ (shocking!), while Cross appears to be in need of a good talking-to. The object of his affections has an excuse for being a “borderline” personality. What is Cross’ excuse?

David,
Wilton Manors

Fort Lauderdale Gay Events – July 14, 2011

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A.J. CROSS ANNUAL BIRTHDAY PARTY/FUNDRAISER

A masquerade ball and fundraiser for Covenant House will be held tonight, Thursday, July 14, from 8:30 to 11:30 p.m. at Johnny’s Fort Lauderdale, 1116 West Broward Boulevard.

 

Boxers and Briefs Auction

Will be held at Bill’s on Wilton Drive on Monday, July 18, starting at 8 p.m.

A benefit for Tuesday’s Angels. Featuring some of the hottest bartenders in South Florida. Nikki Adams of Broward House, Miss Kitty, Russell Matheny of The Stable and Greg Phelps from Georgie’s Alibi are this year’s auctioneers and Toni Barone is this year’s special guest emcee. This year will feature a live underwear auction, a 50/50 raffle and a silent auction.

Broward Bares it 2011

Friday, August 19, from 7 to 11 p.m. Voted Fort Lauderdale’s #1 fundraiser. Bigger, badder and bawdier – this year is being super-sized for your pleasure!

Have you ever wanted to see some of your favorite local and national singers, dancers, comedians and performers take their clothes off? Well, here is your chance because on Friday, August 19th, inside the Paradise Live Theater at the Seminole Hard Rock Hotel and Casino (1 Seminole Drive in Hollywood, FL.), a host of them will be getting together for one night and taking “IT” off for you – all in the name of a good cause. Broward Bares It is a hilarious, sexy, steamy and zany night of burlesque, comedy and vaudeville dance acts and songs presented onstage in a Broadway atmosphere.

For more information, visit www.Browardbaresit.com.

 

21st Annual Poverello Center Bowl-A-Thon

The teams are forming for the 21st Annual Bowl-A-Thon to be held on Saturday August 13th. Registration at 11am Bowling begins at Noon. To Register visit www.poverello.org and for more information contact Dale Madison, 954-561-3663 Ext.

123. The event will be held at the Sawgrass Lanes 8501 North University Drive, Tamarac, FL, 33321

 

Leather Masked Ball Pool Party

Sunday July 17th The Cheston House will host the Leather Masked Ball Pool Part from 1-5pm. $10donation includes beer and light food. There will be free parking for the first 25 cars. The Chesterton, 520 North Birch Road, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304

 

Open For Business: Cross to Bear

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By Cliff Dunn

The multi-talented and multi-faceted A.J. Cross, general manager of Johnny’s Club, Bar & Lounge in Fort Lauderdale, is pleased to announce his 9th Annual Birthday Fundraiser (the reputedly 40-something Cross looks like he could pass for a man at least half his age – the little %@#$), to be held at Johnny’s on Thursday, July 14, starting at 9 p.m. Over the past 9 years, his Natal Day Events have helped raise thousands of dollars, with last year’s, “Needs Wheels” fundraiser for Father Bill Collins of Poverello netting enough from individual and corporate donors (including a last-minute Angel from the Outfield pledge from City County Credit Union) to put the good padre behind the wheel on schedule.

This year’s event will be a Masquerade Ball held in conjunction with a reunion of the legendary Cupid’s Cabaret, including former staff, entertainers, dancers and XXX Adult Entertainment Stars courtesy of Howard Andrew from Fabscout (and himself a former GM of Cupid’s), with the possibility of a very Special Guest Appearance. This year’s soiree will raise money for Covenant House of Fort Lauderdale (http://www.covenanthousefl.org/). Costumes or masques are requested of all attendees. For more information, you can visit Cross’ Facebook page at www.facebook.com/ angelice.cross.

Wall Street Muscle Pushes NY Gay Marriage Win

An unlikely alliance of bedfellows came together in the crucial days leading up to New York State’s historic legislation legalizing same-sex marriage. The New York Times reported last week that critical support for passage came from a cabal of Wall Street heavyweights known for their support for conservative causes.

In the run-up to the vote, New York Governor Andrew Cuomo approached billionaire financier Paul Singer, a deep-pocketed Republican donor (and friend of Rudy Giuliani), along with hedge fund moguls Cliff Asness of AQR Capital and Daniel Loeb of Third Point Capital.

Singer – whose son is gay – along with Asness and Loeb – were known to view gay marriage from a libertarian perspective, as an issue of personal freedom, and had the clout and Republican credentials to provide insulation for skittish New York state senators anxious about a conservative backlash.

Although Asness and Loeb supported Barack Obama in 2008, both subsequently split with the president over matters of policy, with Asness penning a scathing criticism of Obama in 2009 because of his perceived treatment of hedge funds during the Chrysler bankruptcy case, and Loeb similarly raising the cry against the president in writing last year. But Singer and Loeb have supported previous same-sex marriage campaigns, including an event last fall for the American Foundation for Equal Rights (AFER).
The triumvirate let Cuomo know that they were willing to set aside political differences and each followed through with six-figure checks made out to the lobbying effort in support of the legislation.

Photo: Last year, Father Bill Collins received a Ford Focus purchased for him by Maroone Ford along with the help of many local businesses.

Quotable

“I don’t give a %$@& that I did drag in the 80s. I will cut your %!@#s off if you %$@& this up.” – Local real estate investor to broker, overheard at Georgie’s Alibi in Wilton Manors

By the Numbers
(I’m My Biggest Diva Edition)

 

In 1997, U.S. News & World Report surveyed its readers as to whether they believed that various well-known figures were “very likely” or “somewhat likely” to go to Heaven. More people (87%) picked themselves as being more likely to get into heaven than anyone else, ahead of people such as Mother Teresa (second place, 79%) or Oprah Winfrey (third place, 66%).

 

If you’re “Open for Business”, you can contact Business Writer and Director of Sales, Cliff Dunn, with your story at Business@FloridaAgenda.com

Fort Lauderdale Gay Events July 7, 2011

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A.J. CROSS ANNUAL BIRTHDAY PARTY/FUNDRAISER

A masquerade ball and fundraiser for Covenant House on Thursday, July 14, from 8:30 to 11:30 p.m. at Johnny’s Fort Lauderdale, 1116 West Broward Boulevard.

FLORIDA LEATHER CANINE CONTEST

At Ramrod, 1508 NE 4th Avenue in Fort Lauderdale, a benefit for The Pet Project on Sunday, July 10, starting at 8 p.m. Bring your “best friend” in his finest leather and perhaps he will win a spot in the 2012 Collar and Cuffs calendar. H BOXERS AND BRIEFS AUCTION Will be held at Bill’s on Wilton Drive on Monday, July 18, starting at 8 p.m. A benefit for Tuesday’s Angels. Featuring some of the hottest bartenders in South Florida. Nikki Adams of Broward House, Miss Kitty, Russell Matheny of The Stable and Greg Phelps from Georgie’s Alibi are this year’s auctioneers and Toni Barone is this year’s special guest emcee. This year will feature a live underwear auction, a 50/50 raffle and a silent auction.

EQUALITEA TEA DANCE & POOL PARTY

Sunday, July 24, from 2 to 7 p.m., at 641 NW 36th Street in Oakland Park. Featurinig D.J. Julian Marsh with complimentary full bar and food. Free Hopper Shuttle (gratuity not included) and parking at Auto Zone at 35th and Andrews. Tickets are $25/door ($20/in advance at PrideCenterFlorida.org). 100% of the proceeds to benefit The Pride Center at Equality Park. Door prize: one week stay at Eagle Creek Log Cabin in Maggie Valley, NC, near Asheville. Transportation not included. (www.RoaringCreekCabins.com). Sponsorships available: Supporting ($100), VIP ($250) & Angel ($500) – Contact Jason Burns or Thomas Cross for more information. Want to volunteer? Contact Thomas Cross or Jeff Black via the Pride Center.

BROWARD BARES IT

2011 Friday, August 19, from 7 to 11 p.m. Voted Fort Lauderdale’s #1 fundraiser. Bigger, badder and bawdier – this year is being super-sized for your pleasure! Have you ever wanted to see some of your favorite local and national singers, dancers, comedians and performers take their clothes off ? Well, here is your chance because on Friday, August 19th, inside the Paradise Live Theater at the Seminole Hard Rock Hotel and Casino (1 Seminole Drive in Hollywood, FL.), a host of them will be getting together for one night and taking “IT” off for you – all in the name of a good cause.

Broward Bares It is a hilarious, sexy, steamy and zany night of burlesque, comedy and vaudeville dance acts and songs presented onstage in a Broadway atmosphere. For more information, visit www.Browardbaresit.com.

A.J. Cross appointed to city board

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FORT LAUDERDALE –

Photo: A.J. Cross

Fort Lauderdale Mayor Jack Seiler appointed A.J. Cross, vice president of NRJ Corporation, to the city’s Budget Advisory Board.

Cross’ nomination was approved unanimously by the Fort Lauderdale City Commission.

Cross has played a vital role in the local LGBT community since moving to this area 11 years ago and is a valued businessman and philanthropist. Cross will be the only member of the LGBT community to sit on the Budget Advisory Board and one of only a few to sit on any of the cities’ advisory boards.

“I was honored that Mayor Seiler appointed me to the board and surprised and pleased the city commission voted me in unanimously,” said Cross. “I’m looking forward to helping to ensure that the budget for the city remains strong and that we follow through responsibly. I plan to represent the LGBT community with responsibility and humility.

Community comes to the rescue for Father Bill Collins

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Photo: A.J. Cross along with Michael Albetta and Tony Schoonover of Maroone Ford. They are standing with the car which will be purchased for Father Bill Collins.

Fundraiser results in new car for community icon

By BOB KECSKEMETY

The community is coming together for a fundraiser to purchase a new car for Father Bill Collins, founder of the Poverello Center and Food Bank. The “Need Wheels” fundraiser will be held on Monday, Dec. 20 at 8 p.m. inside the Rainbow Lounge at Johnny’s Bar, 1116 West Broward Blvd., Fort Lauderdale.

Collins, who was hospitalized last month following a car accident, has been taking taxis or catching a ride from volunteers to the Poverello from his home in Lauderdale By The Sea. His vehicle was totaled in the accident, and the money from his insurance company was used to pay off his car loan and some of the medical expenses. A.J. Cross, general manager of Johnny’s, decided to bring the community together to help out Collins after learning of the accident on Nov. 30. Within 24 hours, Cross had received more than $8,000 in pledges, and 37 gay-owned businesses offered to help purchase the new car. The goal is to pay for the car, taxes, tags and registration.

“Everyone I’ve called has offered assistance — it’s been amazing,” said Cross. “Father Bill is so revered in the community. For most people, I didn’t even have to say why. As soon as I would say ‘Father Bill’ people responded with ‘whatever you need.’” In the mid ’80s, Collins, then a priest at St. Coleman’s Catholic Church, became chaplain in the Imperial Point Hospital chapel from St. Coleman’s Catholic Church in Fort Lauderdale. This is where he first learned about the victims of the early AIDS crisis and found out that many could not work to purchase money for food. Collins started using his pay from the church to purchase food and made deliveries from his car. When his pay was not enough to cover those stricken by the epidemic, he spent his entire pension fund to purchase more food. Soon, that too ran out and he got a second job teaching at Broward Community College.

Word quickly spread about his work with AIDS patients and by the late ’80s, acquaintances familiar with his work opened the Poverelo Food Bank in Pompano Beach and a thrift store to assist in purchasing food. A few years later, Poverello outgrew its Pompano Beach space and moved to its current location in Wilton Manors.

Now, 24 years later, Poverello is planning to move to it’s new location next year, which is currently being remodeled next to the Pride Center at Equality Park on Dixie Highway in Wilton Manors. Collins often credits Poverello’s volunteers for the center’s success in serving more than 12,000 clients through the years. Poverello currently has 135 volunteers on its roster and serves 4,000 clients.

To this day, Collins has refused to take any money for his work with the Poverello Center and lives off his salary from the church.

Cross also reached out to Michael Albetta of Maroone Ford and the Florida GLBT Democratic Caucus to see if he could get a new car for Collins at dealer cost. Albetta offered to purchase the car for Collins from Ford Motor Company at dealer cost, minus any rebates and using his Ford employee discount. Together they chose a 2010 Ford Focus, fully-equipped, for $18,500 and valued at $23,000. Albetta explained that he is permitted to use his discount twice a year but is forbidden to give the car away; however, he will sell the car to Collins for $1.

“It’s like the movie, ‘It’s a Wonderful Life,’” said Albetta, “and we’re right in the middle of the holiday season.

It overwhelmingly shows how much the community loves Father Bill.”

Some of the businesses involved in the benefit for Collins include: Bottoms & Tops; Boom; Island City Health & Fitness; Living Room; Sidelines; Java Boys; Georgie’s Alibi; Mark Magazine; Florida Agenda; Island City Eyecare; Chic Optique; Gaymart; Humpy’s Pizza; Ramrod; Copy This; Best Buy; City/County Credit Union; and the Wine Cellar Restaurant.

So far, scheduled entertainment for the benefit include Misty Eyez, Richard Cortez, Mia Sangria, Gemini Stone and an appearance by the Sisters of the Rising Sun. The fundraiser will also include a silent auction with sponsorship baskets, prizes and a 50/50 raffle. The performers will be donating all their tips received that evening to the benefit.

Johnny’s will be donating 100 percent of the door proceeds and 50 percent of all bar sales to Collins, and the valet company at Johnny’s will be turning over 50 percent of the money collected from valet to the new car fund. “My goal is to make this a huge event,” explained Cross. “I want people to walk into Johnny’s and see everybody who’s anybody there for Father Bill. If Father Bill would permit it, Poverello would buy him a car, but he [Collins] won’t do that. He has never taken a penny from Poverello and never will.”

Q: What is your favorite LGBT-themed movie?

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The Q – interviews and photos by Bob Kecskemety

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